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Fear of Failure

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In the current "Get Out Of Your Way! MasterMind for Entrepreneurial Women", we focus on the many and varied limiting beliefs keeping us from Success. A good portion of these beliefs are about the fear of failure.

If we have experiences very early in life that prove to us that it might be shameful and embarrassing to be wrong or fail at something, we'll likely grow up to be adults with the belief that it's wrong to make mistakes. This very belief is enough to keep us from being successful. 

Try tapping on the statements below and remember...

"Whatever humans have learned had to be learned as a consequence only of trial and error experience. Humans have learned only through mistakes."  ~ Buckminster Fuller

I See Your Success!

Susan

Even though...

* People will judge me if I fail
* It's not okay for me to make mistakes
* There are no benefits to failing

            ...I deeply and completely accept myself.

Until next time...be productive, be well, but most of all...be happy.


There are many ways to contact me:
Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
Skype: ssomersetwebb    Phone: (772) 225-1771 
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Using EFT To Ask For Support From Others

Often we feel as though we're the only ones in the Universe that are dealing with a particular problem and that no one else could possibly understand or know what we're going through. Consequently we hesitate to reach out and ask for support.  Since 95% of our beliefs about ourselves and the world around us are beyond our conscious awareness, we can't possibly know what most of that fear/resistance is all about.

Perhaps some of the following ideas might resonate.   If you tap on them, more tapping ideas might come to the surface so write them down and tap on them later.


I feel like I’m all alone in building my business/ raising my children, etc.
I’m all alone in creating success/a healthy relationship, etc.
I’m all alone in my problems
Nobody understands my problems
Nobody has ever experienced my problems
I’m embarrassed to ask for help
I’m ashamed to ask for help
I’m afraid to ask for help
People will ridicule me for asking for help
Everyone else can do it on their own
I’m weak because I need help
I don’t trust others to give me the help I need
Nobody knows what I need
I don’t know how to ask for help


Until next time...be productive, be well, but most of all...be happy.


There are many ways to contact me:
Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
Skype: ssomersetwebb    Phone: (772) 225-1771 
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HAVE FUN WITH IT!

What does that mean?  Having fun is a very subjective idea. We humans have fun at doing all kinds of things. Walking in the woods, gathering seashells on the beach, watching a 3D movie with lots of popcorn, playing catch with a child, planting new flowers without using gloves.  I have fun with all of these things...and more. I'll bet you could up with dozens of ways to have fun.

But...what about the 'stuff' that you really don't like doing but is a necessary part of your life?  Exercising,  flossing your teeth, taking out the garbage. Some people would even include work as something they don't like but have to do to pay the bills. So off they go every day, doing what they 'have to do' to make a living and all the while not enjoying one minute of it. 

What is that person vibrationally telling the Universe that he/she wants?  More of the same. So...the Universe is going to respond the way it HAS TO which is exactly matching the vibration. That's the way we create. The Universe matches our vibration EVERY SINGLE TIME. You're going to continue to get more of the same until you change your vibration.

How do I change my vibration and have more fun with the things I don't like? I thought you'd never ask :-)

EFT can get you where you want to be. Try these tapping statements and see how it feels. Remember to keep tapping until you feel better.

Even though I feel like I can't have fun any more, I deeply and completely accept myself.
Even though I don't have time to have fun, I deeply and completely accept myself.

If you don't know how to use EFT, just click on over to my website and watch the quick video of me tapping with my lovely assistant, Peach Pie. 

Until next time...be productive, be well, but most of all...be happy.


There are many ways to contact me:
Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
Skype: ssomersetwebb    Phone: (772) 225-1771 
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GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD AND INTO YOUR LIFE

A few years ago I was working with a client who never, and I mean never, stopped thinking about, talking about, focusing on or obsessing about her business. She couldn't sleep, ate her meals at her desk.  Her cell phone was glued to her ear while she was in the car on her way to appointments. She became obsessive about FaceBook and Twitter.  She neglected her house, her cat was a matted mess, her clothes were wrinkled. She was exhausted. Heck, she looked exhausted. But all this activity never seemed to move her any further toward her goals. All she got from that activity was overwhelm.

What happens when you stay in your head all the time? It becomes overwhelming and chaotic. The noise just never seems to end. You’re unable to focus. Mistakes get made. You might get ill or become depressed or chronically anxious. Perhaps you’ll experience sleeplessness or irritability. The fun simply goes out of your life when you’re in your head all of the time.

A quote from the movie Eat Pray Love, based on the novel by Elizabeth Gilbert, speaks to this.  "If you could clear out all that space in your mind you would have a doorway. And you know what the universe would do? Rush in. Everything else would take care of itself."

How do you clear your mind to open the doorway that leads to peace and Inspired Action?  Of course you can practice meditation or yoga, but one of the most powerful and fastest ways I know how to get to peace is EFT.

Here's a sample tapping phrase that might help you get started tapping your way to Peace:

Even though it’s difficult to have fun when nothing is working right in my life, I deeply and completely accept myself.

There are many ways to contact me:
Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
Skype: ssomersetwebb    Phone: (772) 225-1771 
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EFT and the Law of Attraction

So what's the deal with the Law of Attraction (LOA)?

You watched The Secret so many times your husband threatened to divorce you.  You read the book and...well...nothing changed.  At this point you might be saying to yourself, "I don't know how to do this right". Well I'm here to tell you that you're doing absolutely nothing wrong.  The simple fact is neither the film nor the book give you all the information you need to make the Law of Attraction work for you. Dr. Joe Vitale, (who, by the way, has an EFT coach) one of the presenters in the film, has been quoted as saying he believes the film could be considered "dangerous". How could that be?  Asking for what you want is dangerous?  Let me explain.

The three stages of The Law of Attraction are:
    1.  You ask. (That's the easy part.)
    2.  The Universe has to answer.  (It's a Law. Like attracts like.)
    3.  You let it in. (Are you vibrating at the level of asking?)

Aligning your subconscious beliefs with your conscious desires is the missing link to making the Law of Attraction work for you.  In The Secret they talk about visualizing what you want.  Some books and teachers suggest journaling, making a vision or dream board or taking particular action steps to creating what you want.  What they leave out is THE most important aspect of creating your vision - vibration.

According to Quantum physics, we live in a vibrational Universe. Our thoughts are vibratory.  The Universe matches our vibration every time. Thus, our thoughts create.  The key to understanding why LOA might not be  working for you is to understand where the majority of our vibration originates  - 95% or more is subconscious.

It’s my fervent belief that changing subconscious beliefs is THE secret behind The Secret. And EFT is the best way I know how to do that. Learning it and using it daily is the key to making The Secret work. Why do I believe that? Because it’s shown up over and over again in my life and the lives of my clients. Tapping on your limiting beliefs reprograms those beliefs which creates a different vibration which the Universe must match - every time. If you’re being challenged in any aspect of your life - health, money, relationships, happiness - then know that your subconscious is ‘driving the bus’.

There are many ways to contact me:
Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
Skype: ssomersetwebb    Phone: (772) 225-1771 
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What is Emotional Freedom?

Would you agree that society is having an emotional breakdown?  Everywhere we look there are disasters of every kind - economic, political and earth changes.  Fears are heightened, tempers are rising.  Millions of us are on antidepressants. More than half of all marriages end in divorce. Domestic violence is on the rise. Every day stresses now seem bigger than life.

Would you also agree that this is NOT how we would like it to be?

Not knowing there is an alternative way to peace, most of us reach for alcohol, prescription and non-prescription drugs or other addictive ways to self-medicate - simply because we want to FEEL BETTER. That’s the bottom line. We all just want to feel better. 95% of your responses are controlled by your subconscious mind.

If you don’t know what your subconscious beliefs are just take a look at your life. How much of it is filled with drama and fear?  Are you ill all the time?  Never have enough money? Depressed?  Anxious?  Your emotional responses are dictated by your subconscious perceptions and beliefs. They are a filter for your reality.

What if I told you there is a healthier way to feel better fast? It’s portable and legal.  You don’t need a prescription for it. You can do it anywhere, anytime. It’s takes moments to learn and you can use it for a lifetime.  What is the miracle you ask?  EFT!!! Yes, you can stop the constant fear, worry and overwhelm in minutes with EFT. 

How does it work? 

It re-writes the programs contained in your subconscious, just like you would re-write software contained in your computer hard drive. Once your unconscious programs are changed, you are no longer at the control of your emotions - you are the master of your emotions.
You deserve a healthy, happy, whole life and it’s possible with EFT!

There are many ways to contact me:

Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com
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Be productive. Be well. Most of all...be happy.

Susan
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Is EFT a Scam?

Is EFT a Scam?

Were you aware that thousands of people a day search EFT on Google every day?

People are smart and have been conditioned to do their research. Anyone who is looking for an alternative way to relieve their anxiety, depression, pain, fear of public speaking, ADD/ADHD, anger, headaches, panic attacks and more, will inevitably do research using the words “EFT” and Google is usually the first place they’ll look.

So, you’ve typed the word, “EFT” into your search and now Google is suggesting other phrases you might be looking for. It offers you about 10 choices. The first of which is probably “EFT Scam”. It offers you other choices like “eft overwhelm”, “eft tapping”, “eft training”. As you know, headlines featuring bad news just get read. So...almost anyone who is looking for information on EFT is naturally going to click the search for “EFT Scam”. I don’t blame them, I would check it out as well.

The challenge is that many savvy marketers know that bad news gets read first, so it’s very easy for marketers to take advantage of good people who are doing honest research. As more people see and click the automatic suggestion for “EFT Scam”, Google serves the scam suggestion higher and higher in the list. And the problem is not just specific to EFT. It happens for many good and reliable companies, products and services.

The shocker is that I have clicked many time on various Google suggestions with the word ‘scam’ and have many times found that the page I landed on had absolutely NOTHING whatsoever to do with the company or product I was researching. It was just a clever marketer that knew how to take advantage of the Google algorithm to generate traffic to their website.

All that said...have a look around this site and make the decision for yourself. Check out the testimonials and give us a call.   You get to choose how you want your life to look and you CAN do it with EFT.

There are many ways to contact me:

Email: Susan@TapIntoYourLife.com  
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Q&A - Finding and Working With EFT Practitioners

Q: Is It Time To See an EFT Practitioner?

A:  You might have heard about EFT from your friends. You know people that got real results in eliminating their depression, anxiety, phobias and pain. You are now searching for a practitioner to help you with your specific issues.  You’re probably wondering how to find a reliable and ethical EFT Practitioner and what you should expect from the experience. OR...

You’ve downloaded the manual and have used it a few times and have not gotten the results you would like or are confused about exactly how to use EFT.


Q:  How do I Choose EFT Practitioners?

At this time there are no strict regulations about who can say they are an EFT Practitioner. I’ve known many people to study the manual or take a one day course and call themselves qualified to be included in a list of EFT Practitioners.

If you search on one of the many Practitioner sites, please know that no site or list guarantees the competence of the EFT Practitioners listed. Once you’ve chosen a therapist to work with, contact them. Most EFT Practitioners will offer a FREE initial consultation so you can get a feel for how they work and whether or not their particular style resonates with you.


Q: What Should I Expect During My First Session?

Your first session should generally last anywhere from one hour to an hour and a half. Most EFT Practitioners engage in a question/answer format where you will discover 
what your goal is for your first session and perhaps what you would like to work on in upcoming sessions.

You will learn how to use EFT correctly and will be able to experience the effects of its power in your very first session. I give my clients an instruction sheet as well as tapping statements to use in between each session.  Some EFT Practitioners prefer to have their clients tap only with them for the first several sessions.

EFT is simple, easy and effective once you find the right EFT Practitioners. Do your research and find one that is the perfect fit for you!


If  you have questions about how to locate an EFT Practitioner, please contact me.

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A New EFT Book for Beginners... And Everyone Else!

Chances are you have tried various things for your weight, your depression, your allergies, your severe pain, your phobias and fears, your abuse problems, your sports performance. You have thrown either loads of time and/or money at your health and/or emotional issues and received very little help. Things just aren’t working and you know intuitively there must be another way, another approach, perhaps a deeper cause that you aren't addressing. 

Or...you’ve tried EFT because you’ve heard everybody talking about it and said, “This is too confusing” or “I don’t know what to say”?  If this is you, then say goodbye to confusion, pain, anxiety, phobias and depression with the new EFT book, Tap It! The EFT Playbook. 

This TAP IT! is not only for beginners, it’s for those of you wishing to sharpen your skill set and it’s a wonderful gift for nearly all ages.  Can you imagine a better gift than giving someone you love peace of mind, clarity and joy?

EFT is a new discovery that has provided thousands with relief from pain, diseases and emotional issues. Simply stated, it is a unique version of acupuncture except you don’t use needles. Instead, you stimulate well established energy meridian points on your body by tapping on them with your fingertips. It looks funny but it works! The process is easy to memorize and is portable so you can do it anywhere.

By following the simple steps outlined in TAP IT!, you can erase limiting beliefs and let go of unwanted behaviors. You can also improve your health and wealth.  

Sound too good to be true? After nearly a decade of using and teaching EFT I’ve seen what can only be described as miracles. Here are some of the other things this new EFT Playbook can help you with:

  • trauma or abuse
  • stress management
  • post traumatic stress
  • fears or phobias
  • depression
  • back pain
  • chronic disease
  • quitting smoking
  • allergies
  • ADD/ADHD
  • anger management
  • headaches
  • breathing difficulties
  • panic attacks
  • workplace performance/academics/sports
  • fear of public speaking
  • weight loss

EFT is:

  • drug free, no known side-effects
  • fast
  • practical
  • non-invasive
  • a tool you can use for the rest of your life

If you’d like to learn the new technique that everybody is talking about, then CLICK HERE to purchase Tap It!: The EFT Playbook

There are many ways to contact me:
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Attracting Abundance Becomes a Reality with EFT

It goes without saying that our relationship with money is complicated. Over the years I have kept a list of all of the limiting money beliefs that have shown up in my life, the lives of my clients and from various sources. It will probably come as no surprise that I have collected hundreds of them. Here are some more common limiting beliefs about money:

  • My parents never made a lot of money so I couldn’t do it.
  • If I make a lot of money people will want it.
  • I’d have to work too hard to make a lot of money.
  • I wouldn’t know how to handle a lot of money.
  • If I get rich I’ll lose my friends.
  • If I make a lot of money I won’t be able to keep it.
  • Rich people are greedy and I don’t want to be perceived as greedy.
  • I only need enough money to survive.
  • It will never happen.

Do these sound familiar?  If they do, please don’t give up hope. You can overcome your subconscious programming. You can attract all the abundance that is your divine right. It is possible to reprogram all of your limiting beliefs with EFT. With EFT attracting abundance becomes simplified because it literally changes your thoughts, which are vibration, about money.

According to the Law of Attraction, the Universe matches whatever vibration you are offering - every time.  

The most important aspect of making the Law of Attraction work for YOU is knowing that it’s not what you say but the vibration that you offer. With EFT attracting abundance is possible because it changes your vibration. Like attracts like. Your mind becomes a magnet for abundance.

Here are a couple of tapping statements that you can use to change some possible limiting beliefs about money and EFT:

Even though I’m so used to struggling financially and fear I’ll never be rich,
I deeply and completely accept myself.
(Reminder Phrase:  I’m so used to struggling financially I’ll never be rich.)


Even though I’m afraid that using EFT to attract abundance won’t work for me,
I deeply and completely accept myself.
(Reminder Phrase: I’m afraid using EFT to attract abundance won’t work for me.)


If you’re confused about what to say and how to use EFT correctly, please call me for your free 15 minute consultation. Let's explore what's happening for you, where you would like to be and how you can get there.
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